A Soul Session

Now right off the bat I'm gonna say, a soul session is ONLY for those who are highly interested and knowledgeable about the paranormal.  Those who have tried and failed to experience it on the higher levels.

It can hurt, it can scar you and it can feel like the spirits are messing with you BUT.....that is the purpose.  It is to teach you how to tell the difference between a spirit simply trying to touch you or trying to jump you.

It is meant to teach you how to safely call the spirits and how to dispel the spirits and how to protect yourself from the evil entities.

There are very few sensitives who will or who are even willing to assist in this, I'm one...of course. I rarely assist in a soul session unless I have a sincere belief the person asking me for the assistance is willing to go the whole nine yards because it is not, NOT an easy process.

Soul sessions will help keep you from breaking, emotionally.  They teach you how to combat the spirits energy but how to use yours to help them.  It is a draining weekend, you will be mentally forced to deal with the dark, negative, emotional things that are deep within you and/or the dark things that follow you.

I will say right now before anyone tried to contact me to do this.  It is NOT done over the internet, phone, Skype, e-mail.  It is done in person, I do not charge and before you even think about doing this you need to be mentally & emotionally ready to deal with your shit and let go of all of it.

You can have the dark and the light if you are willing.

Let's Get Electrocuted..

Ok, so maybe not literally electrocuted.  I'm often asked what it feels like when a spirit is around.

The only way I can explain it is, the room feels like it's got an electrostatic charge running through it.
If you walk into a room and hold your hand out you can feel the energy, or should be able to if the spirit(s) is active at the time.

Now, there are ways to charge a room if you aren't getting anything.  Lemon water, certain crystals can charge the energy.  Just like batteries and electronic devices get sapped but the lemon water provides the spirit clarity.  The water you use is also important, you should use distilled water but I have turned to using Ionized water which has been working wonders.

If you are a sensitive you will be able to feel the change in the room.  It should feel like the room has become a giant battery but the air in the room feels like it's become humid, not hot humid but bone chilling cold humid.  If you have never experienced this, you'll understand when you do.

You have to be careful because I have heard of instances where the sensitive has felt they were actually electrocuted.  What happens is the amount of energy you produce is going to flow through you as well as give any spirit(s) the energy they need to communicate better but you are a living, breathing human made up of mostly water, and what happens when you stand in a puddle of water and grab ahold of anything electrical?

Yep, a big ol' zap.

You should always wear rubber soled shoes and have others with you just in case.  Not only do you not know what you will pull into the location but you don't know what it's capable of with the energy.

Can this be done outside as well?  Yes, it can be it just has to be a very defined space.

I do not and never recommend anyone doing this without the proper tools and knowledge.  It takes a lot of meditation training, set-up and the proper mixtures but you must also have the proper defenses, to defend against anything you call, because plain and simple this is spirit calling.

 

Sex and the Single Ghost

Ok, so now you're laying in bed one night and suddenly you feel a hand on your leg, it slowly moves up.   You know the house is locked up tighter than a drum so there is no one inside.  The phrase, What the hell may ring through.  You kick your foot to push it away, maybe it's the cat.  Oh, wait, I don't have a cat........and you find yourself in the throws of ecstasy.

Spectrophilia:


"is a fetish that is classified as the paraphilia in which one is attracted to ghosts or spirits. One may be aroused by reflections or images in a mirror. Often those with the spectrophilia fetish masturbate against mirrors. Spectrophiliacs fantasize about ghosts and often imagine scenarios involving sexual events between themselves or others and spirits."

Oooooookay, after your not so exhaustive google search you think you're going cray cray right?

Maybe not, what if spirits can garner enough energy to have sex with the living.

Zak Bagans tried to get the spirit of Jerusha Howe to have sex with him but his advances were spurred. Although he swears he had some type of erotic experience that left him feeling, well, like he had sex, so....

What makes people believe they are having sex with the dead?  There have been accounts of this as far back as Arabic, Greek and even Hindu times. There are documented stories of spirits having sexual relations with the living.  I do have to point out, again, back in the day some smoked some pretty heavy stuff so.....could these accounts be hallucinations, Erotic Dreams, Wishes, plain masturbation fantasy?

It's been said that sex with a spirit feels like a pure, loving environment. Something that totally transforms the room.  The feelings is illusory, like totally giving yourself, total relaxation.
Could you be masterbating in your sleep?

I have witnessed individuals who can, while in a deep state of meditation achive orgasam without ever touching themselves.  It is quite the show and rather interesting, is this sex with a spirit?

There are so many questions about this area of ghost hunting I'm not sure there will ever be definitive proof that a living person has had actual sex with a ghost.

The mind is a powerful place, no one really knows what goes on when one sleeps. And although Spectrophilia has/is discussed in paranormal circles there is currently no evidence it actually has ever happened, and although there are YouTube videos showing it, one can never be absolutely sure what's really going on.

It's an interesting avenue of study/investigation but how do you investigate it.  Set up cameras and have the living sleep naked with no blankets?

Sex and the single ghost is sure to travel through history as a myth, unless The Ghost Adventures Crew returns to Longfellow’s Wayside Inn in Sudbury and Room Number 9.

Sometimes Demons Give You Lemons

I've had people always ask, How do you deal with all the demons?

Ok, well to be honest a real demon probably could kick my ass but.....If I'm paying attention I'd know he/she/it was either coming or there.

The funny thing about Ghost Hunting is, you have to have some sort of knowledge of real paranormal activity, and I'm not talking about the movies.  I'm talking about it's history, and yes there is a long history of Spirit talkers, spirit callers, demons, etc....long before the bible made them a hot item.

The bible created God and Satan before that there was only those  Gods that made the day and or night, those gods who helped make children, find love, grow crops, made it rain to fill the rivers.  You prayed to the god for which you wanted something from. 

Now, I'm not saying the Ancient worshippers didn't know there where bad gods.  God who would do your bidding (we call them demons).  If you wanted a lover and another had him, you'd make an offering.  Maybe the "God" liked what you offered and make it happen, that was the belief.  such an easy belief system.

Then came the Romans, who by the way had their moment in the sun of many gods as well.  But to gain control of the masses of many counties they had to come up with a plan and that plan was what Akhenaten had tried, to unify the masses under one God, The Sun God Ra.  For him it didn't work so well.  Maybe because he didn't have the catch, your soul will burn in everlasting hell. Of course the occasional fire pit, public hanging, public chopping off of heads. All made public to instill fear.

Now I'm not saying you shouldn't fear criminals, murderers etc....but they aren't demons.

Demons are dark entities who have been around for a very long time and a true demon can kill you.  They kill you by wearing you down, taking your energy.  They can make you see, hear, experience things and make you feel like it was all a dream.  Can they make you do things, probably given the right circumstances and the right amount of persuasion on your part.

I've had a demon offer me things, hell I always joke that I have a condo in hell but I've earned the A/C and lava pit view. LOL  Ok, to some that may not be so funny but until you face down a true demon don't get your panties in such a bunch.  I know he follows me around, waiting for the opportunity.  My job is to never give him that opportunity and the day I die to smirk at him and pass away.  Never giving him the satisfaction of my energy.

I've learned through my travels and study to fend them off.  Not that I don't listen to what they have to say, because like I've said before, every spirit has a story.  When a demon makes itself known how do you tell if it's a true demon?

Ask it a very simple question, What will you give me?

If you either get now answer or you get the answer, what do you want.  It's not a true demon.  Why, because the true demon will already know what you want and lay that at your feet, for a price. The price will not be to kill another person or animal.  The price will always be YOU!!

The ultimate goal of the demon is to amass energy.  You are energy and the purer the energy the better.  Children are usually their choice.  Mainly because children can see them, and they have not been corrupted by the world at large yet. 

I can tell you, I used to think that going to church all the time, reading the bible all that would make it go away.  All the demon did was laugh because demons are far more primal then the bible, then the church and that makes them more powerful. 

Some might ask, what about an exorcism.  Well, there are only a few that can perform a real exorcism and an exorcism has  lot to do with your belief system.  Think about it, the exorcism is purely based in christen/catholic religion something that hasn't been around that long in the grand scheme of things.  Demons have been around a whole hell of a lot longer.  In order to deal with true demons you MUST go farther back.  You have to deal with the entity on a primal level and be willing to get dirty. 

But, true demons, and I have to say this again, are very few and far between.  They usually like to go after those who are sensitive and can speak to spirits, why, because the spirit energy is drawn to the sensitive.  The demon would have all the juice it needs, you need to figure out how to dispel the juice before the demon can drink it.  I say make lemonade.

Seeing Spirits

Some children see spirits.  Most parents think it's just a faze, they'll grow out of seeing monters in the closet or under the bed.

What if your child sees spirits because they can help the dead move on? 

Children tend to see spirits more than adults because they are open to questioning what they see.  Adults rarely question, a shadow is just that, a shadow.  There is no way it can be a ghost/spirit or even a demon.

If your child is talking to "people" you don't see ask questions.  Like this parent have them draw what they are seeing and how they see the "person".  How do you approach the questions and what do you ask?

1.  Approach the child believing they ARE seeing something.

2. Ask the child, what's your friend's name?

3. Ask, What does your friend look like?

4. Ask, you child to draw their friend for you.

Don't ever tell your child they have a problem, that they aren't seeing it.  Be supportive of the process they could very well be a sensitive and are being visited for a reason.  Sure, that monster under the bed could just be a stuffed animal/toy that fell under there but don't make it bigger than it is and don't try to write it off by trying to convince them they aren't seeing it.

You can also try to find a sensitive who can come to the house and assist in finding out what may be going on.

30 traits of an Empath

Just thought I would share this list.  It is important to realize if you are an Empath or a Sensitive. Now, most sensitives start out as empathic and there are any number of sensitives who are both.  I am both and it about drove me insane as a teenager.  When empatic turns into also sensitive it can get rough to deal not only with the livings feelings but the dead as well.  You have to learn if you are picking up the livings feelings or the dead's energy.





1. Knowing: Empaths just know stuff, without being told. It’s a knowing that goes way beyond intuition or gut feelings, even though that ...is how many would describe the knowing. The more attuned they are the stronger this gift becomes.

2. Being in public places can be overwhelming: Places like shopping malls, supermarkets or stadiums where there are lots of people around can fill the empath with turbulently vexed emotions that are coming from others.

3. Feeling others emotions and taking them on as your own: This is a huge one for empaths. To some they will feel emotions off those near by and with others they will feel emotions from those a vast distance away, or both. The more adept empath will know if someone is having bad thoughts about them, even from great distance.

4. Watching violence, cruelty or tragedy on the TV is unbearable: The more attuned an empath becomes the worse it is and may make it so they eventually have to stop watching TV and reading newspapers altogether.

5. You know when someone is not being honest: If a friend or a loved one is telling you lies you know it (although many empaths try not to focus on this because knowing a loved one is lying can be painful). Or if someone is saying one thing but feeling/thinking another, you know.

6. Picking up physical symptoms off another: An empath will almost always develop the ailments off another (colds, eye infections, body aches and pains) especially those they’re closest to, somewhat like sympathy pains.

7. Digestive disorders and lower back problems: The solar plexus chakra is based in the centre of the abdomen and it’s known as the seat of emotions. This is where empaths feel the incoming emotion of another, which can weaken the area and eventually lead to anything from stomach ulcers to IBS (too many other conditions to list here). Lower back problems can develop from being ungrounded (amongst other things) and one, who has no knowledge of them being an empath, will almost always be ungrounded.

8. Always looking out for the underdog: Anyone whose suffering, in emotional pain or being bullied draws an empath’s attention and compassion.

9. Others will want to offload their problems on you, even strangers: An empath can become a dumping ground for everyone else’s issues and problems, which, if they’re not careful can end up as their own.

10. Constant fatigue: Empaths often get drained of energy, either from energy vampires or just taking on too much from others, which even sleep will not cure. Many get diagnosed with ME.

11. Addictive personality: Alcohol, drugs, sex, are to name but a few addictions that empaths turn to, to block out the emotions of others. It is a form of self protection in order to hide from someone or something.

12. Drawn to healing, holistic therapies and all things metaphysical: Although many empaths would love to heal others they can end up turning away from being healers (even though they have a natural ability for it), after they’ve studied and qualified, because they take on too much from the one they are trying to heal. Especially if they are unaware of their empathy. Anything of a supernatural nature is of interest to empaths and they don’t surprise or get shocked easily. Even at the revelation of what many others would consider unthinkable, for example, empaths would have known the world was round when others believed it was flat.

13. Creative: From singing, dancing, acting, drawing or writing an empath will have a strong creative streak and a vivid imagination.

14. Love of nature and animals: Being outdoors in nature is a must for empaths and pets are an essential part of their life.

15. Need for solitude: An empath will go stir-crazy if they don’t get quiet time. This is even obvious in empathic children.

16. Gets bored or distracted easily if not stimulated: Work, school and home life has to be kept interesting for an empath or they switch off from it and end up daydreaming or doodling.

17. Finds it impossible to do things they don’t enjoy: As above. Feels like they are living a lie by doing so. To force an empath to do something they dislike through guilt or labelling them as idle will only serve in making them unhappy. It’s for this reason many empaths get labelled as being lazy.

18. Strives for the truth: This becomes more prevalent when an empath discovers his/her gifts and birthright. Anything untruthful feels plain wrong.

19. Always looking for the answers and knowledge: To have unanswered questions can be frustrating for an empath and they will endeavour to find an explanation. If they have a knowing about something they will look for confirmation. The downside to this is an information overload.

20. Likes adventure, freedom and travel: Empaths are free spirits.

21. Abhors clutter: It makes an empath feel weighed down and blocks the flow of energy.

22. Loves to daydream: An empath can stare into space for hours, in a world of their own and blissfully happy.

23. Finds routine, rules or control, imprisoning: Anything that takes away their freedom is debilitating to an empath even poisoning.

24. Prone to carry weight without necessarily overeating: The excess weight is a form of protection to stop the negative incoming energies having as much impact.

25. Excellent listener: An empath won’t talk about themselves much unless it’s to someone they really trust. They love to learn and know about others and genuinely care.

26. Intolerance to narcissism: Although kind and often very tolerant of others, empaths do not like to be around overly egotistical people, who put themselves first and refuse to consider another’s feelings or points of view other than their own.

27. The ability to feel the days of the week: An empath will get the ‘Friday Feeling’ if they work Fridays or not. They pick up on how the collective are feeling. The first couple of days of a long, bank holiday weekend (Easter for example) can feel, to them, like the world is smiling, calm and relaxed. Sunday evenings, Mondays and Tuesdays, of a working week, have a very heavy feeling.

28. Will not choose to buy antiques, vintage or second-hand: Anything that’s been pre-owned carries the energy of the previous owner. An empath will even prefer to have a brand new car or house (if they are in the financial situation to do so) with no residual energy.

29. Sense the energy of food: Many empaths don’t like to eat meat or poultry because they can feel the vibrations of the animal (especially if the animal suffered), even if they like the taste.

30. Can appear moody, shy, aloof, disconnected: Depending on how an empath is feeling will depend on what face they show to the world. They can be prone to mood swings and if they’ve taken on too much negative will appear quiet and unsociable, even miserable. An empath detests having to pretend to be happy when they’re sad, this only adds to their load (makes working in the service industry, when it’s service with a smile, very challenging) and can make them feel like scuttling under a stone.
If you can say yes to most or all of the above then you are most definitely an empathy
Empaths are having a particularly difficult time at the present time, picking up on all the negative emotions that are being emantated into the world from the populace.


 

Possession is the word...

So, everyone that gets nasty, rude, mean spirited is possessed right?

Wrong!

Sometimes people are just assholes or looking for an excuse for the bad things they do.  There are times when someone might, MIGHT be possessed but a true possession is very few and far between.  There are levels leading up to possession, all variables must be in place, meaning, the person who is truly possessed must be in the right frame of mind/body or they went out of their way to get possessed (which even that's a long shot at best).

Contrary to popular belief Satan does not have the time to go around possessing everyone who claims to be possessed and there are far fewer true demons than most think.   You have to remember back in the days that most of the accounts it was common to do some pretty heavy drugs (what we think of as drugs).  There are lesser demons or "worker" demons.

Accounts of Satan & Demons are pretty scary and all accounts can describe really ugly looking people, How would you know what a demon looks like inside a possessed person?

Before we get into someone being actually possessed let's look at the levels of spirits it takes to get to demon, because you don't die and become a demon being a demon has to be earned.

Spirit-Someone who has passed away and their energy remains.

Entity- An Entity is a spirit that has been either stuck on this plane or has been here for quite some time.

Imps-  Imps are a demons handyman.  They are little spirits who have the energy of a small child.  They hop around, steal things, hide things, push, pull.  Generally just annoy you, they can not do any real harm. Imps are not only called by Demons they are also called/created by Witches.  Witches create an Imp in order to bother a living person or to spy on them. Imps are usually quick moving blurs who run back and fourth, usually seen only from the corner of your eye.

Poltergeist- A poltergeist is something totally created by a living person. The energy is created by someone who is either very upset/stressed or a sensitive who has not really learned to control their gift.  Also, mentally challenged/handicapped children are prone to create poltergeist activity.  More so if they are non-verbal. People who have had a stroke and are not able to verbalize any longer can create poltergeist activity.  Poltergeist activity usually manifests like lighting or electrical charges. It usually affects electrical items in the house or is seen as bright flashes of light.

Attachments- Attachments are spirits who have gained the energy to follow you around.  They aren't constantly near you.  A sensitive can feel this energy when the spirit "arrives".  It can be a smooth, slow rising of the normal energy in the room to a strong burst that feels like someone punched you. There can be demon attachments but demons get bored with the living usually pretty quick.

Lesser or "Worker" Demons-  These are demons who have the energy to effect the living.  These lesser demons are the ones doing the actual work, finding those to possess, helping create opportunity.

Possession A-  A possession is NOT always by a demon.  A normal spirit can possess a living person.  It doesn't happen as often as TV would like you to believe because most horrible acts are still mostly committed by the living.  There are spirits who loved living so much that when they pass away they either do not understand or they just want to continue and have garnered enough energy to, at a low moment, over take a living person.  Displacing the livings own soul, not removing it but displacing it inside it's own body.   Displacement is usually done by a spirit NOT a demon.

Soul Displacement-  Have you ever known a person for a long time and suddenly that person changes, does a complete 180.  That could be soul displacement and that usually happens at the time of a horrible accident where the person should have died but didn't.  Whenever a person has had an experience where they should have died and didn't but is not behaving like they did before, Displacement should be looked at.  The person's soul is still intacted it's just "moved over". A sensitive can help find out who has displaced the person and assist in removing the spirit, it's finding out who the spirit is that's sometimes rough.

Possession B- A B type possession is something that is not very common, B Type is when a living person actually gets the attention of a demon.  Demons are looking for strong willed/minded living.  They also take control when the living is at the lowest point, when you are mentally/physically drained.  Unable to defend yourself from any sort of attack/possession.

When people talk about demonic activity it's usually an imp.  Imps are capable of creating "static" in the area.  The static disjoints you, makes you feel light headed or off balance. As stated above, Imps are handymen, they are created by either a true demon or witch to do their biding, which is almost always to annoy.

A true demon doesn't waste time on most of the living and I firmly believe true demonic activity can/is usually turns out to be some other form of activity.  Doing things like Ouija board, casting stones, spells and calling the spirits can open portals, usually not portals to hell but portals for something to enter.  Think of it as opening a door and a gust of wind slams it shut.  Once you open that door you better know how to pull it open again.

Spirit calling is something that is very dangerous.  There are several lower level demons that can do harm.  Calling demons (or spirits) is something you never want to do.  It's not all fun and games, when that demon or spirit appears you better have a game plan because if for a second that demon or spirit thinks you are wasting it's time you're toast.  You have allowed that demon to get the upper hand and in spirit calling YOU have to be strong enough to remain in charge until that demon or spirit has done what you ask and you banish it back.  It's not a funny party trick, you can get hurt and so can others.

You can NEVER call a spirit/demon and leave it to roam.  Shaman/Witches/A Sensitive who can call spirits ONLY call them to answer questions.  Who, What, When, Why.  Once you receive the information you are asking for you must release the spirit back to where you called it from and this is a very dangerous process.  You never do it alone, you never try to arouse someone doing a calling and you never leave the person alone.

In general I tell people to NEVER try spirit calling.  If a demon sees the opportunity they just may take it.
Still the true demon is few and far between.  Most supposed demon activity can be drawn down to something else going on.  I've had paranormal investigators ask me what I think and there are many varibles, and many questions you must ask, demonic activity should always be looked at as a last resort.

If you think you have a demon, document what is going on, get pictures, video, write it out.  Make sure to include dates so an investigator can correlate to full moons or other possible things going on.  Be honest, if you were using a Oujia or some other casting device or if you were trying to call something tell what you were doing.  Be as descriptive as possible because if someone has to go in to clean up your mess they will need to know every step you took, kind of like walking through a mind field, you always want to step in the person's footsteps before you, unless they end then you're on your own, if the footprints end something blew up.